Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Teach & Talk: Kaylynn Johnsen



Guest Post: Today we have Kaylynn Johnsen who was willing to post a poem that she wrote even though she's never done anything like this before. So if you like what you read make sure and give her some love for being so brave!

Box Tops 4 Education or My Education in Parental Love
by Kaylynn Johnsen


When I was younger I wrote copious amounts of poetry. I still write; although I am much more selective about my subject matter.  This particular piece is a tribute to what I’d finally learned about life, love and a life spent loving your children. 

In honor of Mother’s Day and to mothers everywhere “It’s going to be good.”


Cans Without Labels

“Green beans, green beans, green beans,”
I’d sing in the kitchen
At the top of my lungs,
For no good reason.
                       
Remember?

I had every doll in the world,
But I carried the bread loaf
And those little cans of tomato paste;
You called me creative.

You loved me.

When I colored blue, green and yellow roses,
Instead of red,
I was brilliant, insightful.
You were my best critic.

Remember?

I was fond of plaid and stripes,
Before it was in style.
I got my arm caught up in the
Gum ball machine, wasn’t I thrifty?

You loved me.

Too many times I said, “I hate you!”
When I meant to say, “I’m angry right now.”
Sometimes, I had to admit you were right.
I hated that too.

Remember?

I loved overhearing you on the phone,
“My daughter this, my little girl that.”
I’d ask you to tell me about me,
When I was little.

You loved me.

Even when I knew everything,
You listened.
And when I told the same joke every day,
You laughed.

Remember?

I cut all the labels off the cans for school and
Every dinner was a surprise,
You never knew what was inside,
You’d hold your breath and pray, “It’s going to be good.”

You loved me.

Did you say that about me?
“It’s going to be good.”
Did you hold your breath?
Did you pray?

Remember?

I asked, “Would you love me if I looked like this?”
And disfigured my face.
You always said, “Yes.”
You always loved me.

Remember?

“It’s going to be good.”

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Motherhood to me

Motherhood is hard.
That needed to be said first.



I watch new mothers with their sleep-deprived shuffle step and their "I'll never find the time to shower again" frowns and I want to hug them and say, "Motherhood is hard, huh?"

But it gets better.

When I had my twins, my oldest was 3 years old and my daughter was 1 1/2 years old. 
I was in the middle of potty training both of them.
My C-section recovery was long and painful.
Breastfeeding twins was a beast of a job.
In those first two weeks:
I got an abscessed tooth and my whole face was swollen.
We ALL got pink eye and a cold.
The toilet overflowed and started filling up the downstairs living room.
And we had a family wedding.

Put on your Sunday best kids we're going to pretend like our lives aren't falling apart!



BUT

you know what else's doesn't get said enough?

You will be better for having become a mother.
Much better.

(Please understand that I mean no disrespect for those who are not mothers. I believe God loves all of His women and wishes to bless them all, no matter their circumstances. I can only speak of what I know and that is motherhood.)

Motherhood strips you of your
pride
selfishness
time (he-he-he)
belief that you are a good cook (What is this? It's disgusting!)
need to control everything
disillusion that you control ANYTHING
ability to keep your clothes clean

Motherhood offers you
strength you didn't know you had
patience (I know it doesn't always feel like it)
a deep love
chance to be a full time example of good behavior
humility (because you will fail a little at being a full-time example)
forever friends

I love being a mother. It is a TON of work but work has yet to kill me. Being a mother fills me with joy. It shapes who I am. 
Motherhood to me
is a blessing.
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